Nov 17 2009
Not Enough Time for My Dog
Both of these ads came off of Craigslist on the same day:
Need a new loving home for my puppy…i love him to death but just isnt fair to him because i do not have the time he deserves. Hes about 5months old and i have had him since he was 5weeks old. Hes a heeler and very loving, good with kids and other dogs as well. I am asking for a $50 rehoming fee and that is it.
Bella is special needs. she is a german shepard/ mutt mix. She is alpha, she jumps up, she is allergic to wheat, she barks, she can be other dog aggressive, ( but not often ). she digs holes, she jumps on little kids. she bolts out of the door ( but always comes back ). that said, heres the good stuff. she is so cuddly. so loyal, caring and very smart. she would make a perfect pet for adults with no kids under ten, with a horse ranch or many acres to run, and someone who either is retired or works from home. are you this person? i have had her for 4 years and she has brought many happy memories into my life, but its selfish for me not to give her the life she deserves. she could be the best dog ever! even as a trial run, i would always take her back if it didnt work out.. i beleive the perfect home is waiting for her out there..
What, exactly, goes through people’s minds when they are getting a dog? I know — stupid question — the answer many times is: nothing. No thought is given to what this dog is going to be doing; the person getting the dog has one thing in mind: A new playmate or companion to fill the person’s needs — little if any consideration is given to the dog’s needs. And when the new owner discovers that the dog has needs, their initial reaction is that the dog needs to go to someone who “has more time.”
For some reason they assume that if the dog was going to be their perfect companion it would have been born that way and no training would have ever been needed. I always wonder if it was socially acceptable for parents to give up their children, how many kids would actually stay in their birth homes to adulthood? Given the situation in Nebraska this summer, I have a feeling we’d see a lot more kids in foster and institutional care if the option was available: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/27706078/
What has happened in our society that adults seem not to be able to educate and raise another creature be it child or animal? What is going on that we have become so selfish and needy that we’re unable to put the slightest effort into helping another being grow and learn?
“I don’t have time for my dog?” Good grief! You have to feed it, take it for a walk, integrate it into your household and give it some love. How hard is that?
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